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I would agree with Grec. It is very tough to suddenly change roles like that unless both parties became very unhappy with their old relationship that just friendship would seem much better. Do not bother trying to be her friend for a long time. Your lives both need to resettle and the pieces need to fall back into place, you both need new relationships that cause you not to need the other one. After everything has had a long time to settle, you can be friends. Just remind yourself and her that the past is the past, and there is no need to bring it up again since that part of your lives is closed. If you screwed it up, apologize, and tell her not to bring it up again if she would like to attempt a friendship again. It is very easy to open up old wounds especially when you have lots of ammo on each other so avoid it.
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23:58:20 02/21/01
